They call me Nari – Eccentric Impenitent Boho Soul

“When people expect something from you, it means you have given them reasons to believe in you!” Every relationship has expectations in some form or the other. Every relationship is based on some give and take. It can be again anything – Love, Companionship, Being there, talking & taking care! There are two theories and...Keep reading

June 22, 2022

A Woman Owning Her Sexuality Is A Slut, But Entitled Men Can Be Dudes

Borderless Matriarchal Way of Life

#beingwoman #sexuality

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We expect women to be willing objects of desire for men, but expect them to deny their own sexuality, wanting them to be ‘pure’. That’s isn’t fair! You are a ‘Sati Savitri’, ‘a sex bomb’ or a ‘whore’…When you put a woman into any of these categories, you deny the essential aspects of who she...Keep reading

June 18, 2022

India, no land for single woman

Borderless Matriarchal

#beingwoman #Singlewoman

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In India, a girl’s identity revolves around her marriage. As children, most of the girls are raised to understand that they must end up with the right partner, and must go to a nice family as a daughter-in-law. Does our society realize how draining it must be for single women to answer the unending questions...Keep reading

June 16, 2022

Happiness is a journey

Borderless Way of Life

#beinghappy #Happiness

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I am getting this question more often these days and I am sure the case is true for many of us who have come stronger in this lock down and self isolation scenario. We have never seen a vulnerable side of you … Do you get anxious, sad, ec cetera? One question that I have...Keep reading

June 15, 2022

Saree not Sorry

Borderless Connoisseur Way of Life

#Indianwear #Saree

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The purpose of this blog is not to feed consumerism. The goal is not to create clones of myself, or to dress everyone as mannequins with latest trends like window dressing. The goal is to inspire, to make people take pride in repeating clothes, to spark creativity in repurposing what they already own, to buy...Keep reading

June 15, 2022

The temple of feminine power – Kamakhya

Borderless Matriarchal Wanderlust

#Kamakhya #Womanhood

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Menstruation is something a woman has to suffer through in silence. Traditionally, menstruation of women in India is frowned upon. It has always been surrounded by taboos and myths that exclude women from many aspects of socio-cultural life. But at this temple, it’s celebrated. Hard to believe, I know !!! Representing The Female Power of...Keep reading

June 12, 2022

Does time heal everything ?

Borderless Way of Life

#Healing #Time

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There is this widespread idea that “Time heals everything” or “things get better with time” or when you go through any period of loss, disappointment, grief, hopelessness, everyone would repeat the saying “just give it some time” So, Does time does heal all wounds? Well…No, not really. Time is not a healer. On the other...Keep reading

June 12, 2022

Not a WIFE Material

Borderless Matriarchal

#beingwoman #TheycallmeNari

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When I was a little girl, I dreamt of being a doctor, a professor and even a police officer at one point. But never…never did I dream of being ‘wife material’. Never did I think of losing myself to others, losing my identity, my surname, leaving behind my ambitions, my passions to come to an...Keep reading

June 12, 2022

Can I bleed Red ?

Borderless Matriarchal

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I enjoy my womanhood and I am a happy menstruating woman. But I am sick and tired of presentation of menstrual blood as blue liquid in advertisements and television commercials. Why can’t we show blood?Why can’t we bleed red? I don’t see an issue showing actual actual blood. Women are bleeding since the dawn of...Keep reading

May 9, 2022

Dear Equality!

Borderless Matriarchal

#beingwoman #TheycallmeNari

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Dear Equality, Why you have a mistaken identity? Have you ever felt equal,Have you felt less of a woman and more of a man. Have you felt the pinch of being ignored,Have you felt the pain of being ashamed, Have you ever heard someone saying ‘Oh she is a girl and she can’t do it”Have...Keep reading

How expectation becomes a burden?

A Woman Owning Her Sexuality Is A Slut, But Entitled Men Can Be Dudes

India, no land for single woman

Happiness is a journey

Saree not Sorry

The temple of feminine power – Kamakhya

Does time heal everything ?

Not a WIFE Material

Can I bleed Red ?

Dear Equality!

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